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NATIONAL COMING OUT CELEBRATIONS

October 3-13 2008


Friday, October 3, 2008 - 8:00PM 
The Long Island Gay Men's Chorus & Pride Alliance of Long Island
FREE EVENT
 
Tula Kitchen
41 East Main Street
Bay Shore, NY 11706
 
Shanna Sharp will be performing her newest songs yet to be released on her upcoming album
"Calling Amsterdam"!!!
Come on down, see Shanna perform, meet and greet the members of the Long Island Gay Men's Chorus as well as the Pride Alliance of Long Island!!! 
Eat a sit down dinner or have one of Jackie's famous French Martinis at the bar while snacking on some delicious Tula appetizers!
FOR MORE INFORMATION EMAIL: PDSSPR1012@AOL.COM  OR LIGAYMENSCHORUS@AOL.COM
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Sunday, October 5, 2008 - 9:00AM 
 Pride Alliance of Long Island is teaming up with
The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention
for the 2008 Out of the Darkness Community Walk
A CHARITABLE EVENT
 
Old Westbury Gardens
Old Westbury, NY
 
Join your friends from PALI and the AFSP, the leading non profit organization exclusively dedicated to understanding and preventing suicide through research and education.
 
We are waling in tribute to those who in our community have passed away for what amounts never to be a good reason and for those who consider it and hopefully never succeed.
 
If you cannot make it or cannot walk, please consider donating to our cause in memory of a dear friend and volunteer, Sal who passed away recently.
this is a link)
100% of all monies raised goes to AFSP
FOR MORE INFORMATION EMAIL: PDSSPR1012@AOL.COM 
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Monday, October 6, 2008 - 8:00PM 
Pride Alliance of Long Island will head down to "The Bunkhouse" for
MONDAY NIGHT KARAOKE WITH OUT LOUD KARAOKE!
NO COVER CHARGE EVENT
Come on down, sing some songs, meet friends or make new ones!

2 for 1 Drinks From 8 to 9pm
with Brian behind the bar!

Over 44,000 songs to choose from
including the latest releases:
"Disturbia" - Rihanna
"Hot 'N Cold" - Katy Perry
"Viva La Vida" - Coldplay
"American Boy" - Estelle featuring Kanye West
"Crush" - David Archuleta
Also:
Pop - Rock - Country - R & B - Show Tunes - Traditional - TV Show Themes - and MORE!
FOR MORE INFORMATION EMAIL: PDSSPR1012@AOL.COM 
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Wednesday, October 8, 2008 - 7:00PM 
The Pisces Cafe & Pride Alliance of Long Island present
A Poets Wear Prada Production
"THE RAINBOW READINGS"
 
FREE EVENT
Just order a drink or snack from the delicious Pisces Menu!
 
Open Mics for singers, musicians, poets, any talents!
Head on down and have a great time.....no one is turned away!
FOR MORE INFORMATION EMAIL: GREENMAN332002@YAHOO.COM
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Saturday, October 11, 2008 - 7:30PM 
Pride Alliance of Long Island's
Annual Interfaith Worship Service
FREE EVENT
Hosted by: Prince of Peace Independent Catholic Community
 
Date and Time: Saturday October 11th at 7:30 PM
2) Place: St. Bede's Episcopal Church in Syosset on Berryhill Rd.
3) Host: Prince Of Peace Independent Catholic Church http://www.princeofpeace-li.org/ with presiding ministers Fr. Michael , Rev. Maura and Deacon Don.
FOR MORE INFORMATION EMAIL: LIGAYFRIENDS@YAHOO.COM
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Sunday, October 12, 2008 - 3:00PM
Pride Alliance of Long Island's & Theatre Three of Port Jefferson
present
LA CAGE AUX FOLLES
 
TICKETS ARE $20.00 PER PERSON AND INCLUDE A WINE & CHEESE RECEPTION FOLLOWING THE SHOW WITH CAST & CREW!
 
Mail your check or money order to: PALI - PO Box 2239, N. Babylon NY 11703
A portion of the sale will help support PALI's programs and events, including Out In Sayville 2009
FOR MORE INFORMATION EMAIL: PDSSPR1012@AOL.COM


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Monday, October 13, 2008 - 7:30PM
Pride Alliance of Long Island &
The Long Island Gay & Lesbian Film Festival/Cinema Arts Centre

present " OUT AT THE MOVIES"

Advance Tickets On Sale Now!

Members $9 / Public $12 Includes Reception

Tickets can also be purchased at the box office during theater hours or

by calling Brown Paper Tickets toll free at 1-800-838-3006. No refunds.

FREE WINE & CHEESE RECEPTION TO FOLLOW THE MOVIE
In the summer of 2006, Jerusalem was to host, for the first time in history, the World Pride events, which were to culminate in a traditional gay pride parade. The planned events stirred turmoil in the politically complex city, with Jewish, Muslim and Christian religious leaders banding together in an uncompromising battle against what they said would "defile the holy city." On the other side stood the activists of the Open House, Jerusalem's LGBT community center, who planned the events. Steadfast in the face of the heated and violent anti-gay sentiment, they had to deal with threats to much more than just their right to march.
RUSSELL MURPHY, CO PRESIDENT OF INTERPRIDE - The International Association of LGBT Pride Organizers will be in attendance for a post movie Q & A session. Mr. Murphy was in Jerusalem for the events and his organization, is the parent organization for World Pride, which has been held now in Israel and Rome.

FOR MORE INFORMATION EMAIL: PDSSPR1012@AOL.COM OR FLY81657@AOL.COM

 

 


History of NCOD
 
On Oct. 11, 1987, half a million people participated in the March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights. This was the second such demonstration in our nation’s capital and the first display of the NAMES Project Quilt, remembering those who have died from AIDS. One measure of the march’s success was the number of organizations that were founded as a result — including the National Latino/a Gay & Lesbian Organization (LLEGÓ) and AT&T’s GLBT employee group, LEAGUE. The momentum continued four months after this extraordinary march as more than 100 gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender activists from around the country gathered in Manassas, Va., about 25 miles outside Washington, D.C. Recognizing that the GLBT community often reacted defensively to anti-gay actions, they came up with the idea of a national day to celebrate coming out and chose the anniversary of that second march on Washington to mark it. The originators of the idea were Rob Eichberg, a founder of the personal growth workshop, The Experience, and Jean O'Leary, then head of National Gay Rights Advocates. National Coming Out Day was born.

O'Leary expanded the West Hollywood, Calif., office of NGRA to give National Coming Out Day its first headquarters. She hired staff and began preparations for the big day. And, activist Sean Strub got Keith Haring to donate his now-famous image of a person fairly dancing out of a closet. The first National Coming Out Day was celebrated with events in 18 states, and national media attention including The Oprah Winfrey Show, CNN, USA Today and National Public Radio.

Being Open with Yourself

From birth, most of us are raised to think of ourselves as fitting into a certain mold. Our culture and our families teach us that we are “supposed” to be attracted to people of the opposite sex, and that boys and girls are supposed to look, act and feel certain ways.

Few of us were told we might fall in love with someone of the same sex, or that we might have a gender identity that differs from the body into which we were born. That’s why so many of us are scared, worried or confused when facing these truths.

Opening up to the possibility that you may be gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender or even just questioning means opening up to the idea that you’re on a path that’s your own. It’s also why coming out and living ever more openly is a profoundly liberating experience.

In the end, and at the beginning, the first person you have be open with is yourself.

Throughout the coming out process, it’s normal to feel:

Scared
Confused
Vulnerable
Empowered
Exhilarated
Relieved
Proud
Uncertain
Brave
Affirmed